The Impact Bible: Part 1



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People can say whatever they want to say, they can hide behind as much science as they want, run as many numbers as they want, follow as many templates as they can find.  At the end of the day, being successful online in a sustainable way means building an audience around you.


So how do you build an audience around you in a world where everyone is vying for attention?


I can sum that up for you in one word…




It is the art of having a strong effect on someone or something.


Putting out content that impacts people in some way is often how you create separation and begin to build a strong audience around you.


So that begs to ask the question then, how can one create impact with a target audience?


Well, that’s what I hope to help you with in this new blog series called The Impact Bible.


Often it starts with simple ice breakers that wake people up and get them thinking.  Many times the best way to do that is by asking a question.


Below are 303 questions that are proven to “break the ice” so to speak, get engagement and light up your comment section.  Make sure your using this power for good not evil, and as always…

Go make some money!

303 questions to break the ice
303 questions to break the ice

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  1. What is the social event you hate the most?
  2. When did you not speak up, when you know you really should have?
  3. What is the best thing that you have done, just because you were told you can’t?
  4. What has been the greatest adventure of your life?
  5. What did you want to be when you were a kid?
  6. What is the most laid back job you have ever had?
  7. Are you holding on to any past mistakes?
  8. What did life teach you yesterday?
  9. What do you think is the best age to get married?
  10. If you could ask for one wish, what would it be?
  11. What is something new you learned this week?
  12. What makes you smile?
  13. Which cartoons have made you cry?
  14. What is your favorite three-word sentence?
  15. (If you believe in god) would your relationship with god change it all if you were told with 100% certainty that he was actually a she?
  16. How many people do you love? What are you doing for them?
  17. What are your three biggest life goals right now?
  18. If you could go back in time, once, and change a single thing – what would it be?
  19. Are you able to say no, even when it makes you unpopular?
  20. What would you do if you had no money?
  21. What song do you secretly like but won’t admit it elsewhere?
  22. If you had the opportunity to spend a year in another country, where would you go?
  23. How do you react when you encounter a homeless person?
  24. If you dropped everything to pursue your dreams, what would you be risking?
  25. What is your best piece of advice?
  26. What would you change if you knew you were NEVER going to die?
  27. What gets you excited and driven to achieve?
  28. If you received enough money to never need to work again, what would you spend your time doing?
  29. How do you spend the majority of your free time? Why?
  30. What makes you smile?
  31. What are you scared of?
  32. What story are you telling yourself about your life?
  33. What are questions that you don’t like to answer?
  34. What bad habits do you want to break?
  35. When was the last time you had an exciting idea that kept you awake most of the night? Are you pursuing that idea today?
  36. Where is the weirdest place you have seen someone you know?
  37. What are you spending your money on?
  38. What are your three biggest life goals right now?
  39. Are you a good listener?
  40. What would you do differently if you knew that no one was judging you?
  41. What did your life teach you yesterday?
  42. What is the biggest change you want to make in your life?
  43. If your life was a movie, what would be the title?
  44. Where would you like to live? Why haven’t you moved?
  45. When is the last time you cried?
  46. What do you have that you cannot live without?
  47. If you were a vegetable, what vegetable would you be?
  48. What habits are holding you back from success?
  49. If you could ask a single person one question, and they had to answer truthfully, who and what would you ask?
  50. Do you have something that you find strangely relaxing?
  51. If you left your current life in order to pursue your dreams, what would you lose?
  52. How would you describe yourself in 5 words?
  53. What step can you take today in order to fulfill your deepest desire?
  54. How’s life?
  55. What is your greatest strength? What is your greatest weakness?
  56. What have you done to pursue your dreams lately? How about today?
  57. If one animal was made the size of an elephant, which would be the scariest?
  58. What do you really love to do? Do you do it often? If you answer no, why not?
  59. How many people do you truly love? What are you doing for them?
  60. When will you be good enough for you? Is there some breaking point where you will accept everything about yourself?
  61. If you were asked to describe yourself in one word, what would it be?
  62. What small habit can you change today?
  63. What do you think is the ultimate waste of your money?
  64. What do you owe yourself?
  65. When you’re 90 years old, what will matter most to you?
  66. What was the first thing you bought with your first paycheck?
  67. What is your “happy” song?
  68. Did you read a positive or uplifting book today?
  69. What is the biggest waste of time in your life?
  70. What would you do if you could do anything for hours a day for the rest of your life, assuming money were no object?
  71. If you could visit any fictional town, what would it be?
  72. When was the last time you took some time to be alone?
  73. How can you apply the lesson you learned from that regret to your life TODAY?
  74. How often do you keep in touch with family and friends?
  75. What is your relationship with money?
  76. Who are the people you surround yourself with?
  77. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you have done?
  78. What can you do today that you could not do a year ago?
  79. What would people say about you at your funeral?
  80. What makes you special?
  81. What are you looking forward to?
  82. If you could eliminate one things from your life today, what would it be?
  83. When you think of “home” what do you think of?
  84. What’s your favorite exercise routine?
  85. What have you done today to make someone’s life better?
  86. Are you satisfied with your work?
  87. What is something that you seriously take for granted?
  88. What makes you want to do better?
  89. What is the last thing that you’ve done that’s really worth remembering?
  90. Where do you see yourself in one year? five years? ten years?
  91. Would you rather have 10 years of excellent health, or 30 years of average health?
  92. What do you want most?
  93. What simple changes have made your life better?
  94. Where do you go and what do you do to wind down/relax?
  95. Do you mind if I stay by your side?
  96. If a movie was made about your life, what actor/actress would play you?
  97. What is the source of your procrastination?
  98. Describe the next five years of your life, and your plans, in a single sentence
  99. Do you like your job?
  100. If you could as one person, dead or alive, one question, who would you ask and what would you ask?
  101. What is your greatest weakness?
  102. What is your “I shouldn’t be here today” story?
  103. Have you done anything lately worth remembering?
  104. How do you spend most of your free time?
  105. When was the last time you tried something new?
  106. Does this person know how much they mean to you? When was the last time you told them?
  107. When you close your eyes what do you dream of?
  108. What can you do today that you couldn’t do a year ago? What will you be able to do at this time next year?
  109. Is being open-minded a virtue, if it’s causing destructive ideas to spread throughout society?
  110. Describe the greatest adventure of your life
  111. What is an obscure food that you have eaten that most people never tried?
  112. How do you really KNOW anything for sure?
  113. If you had all the money in the world but still had to have some kind of job, what would you choose to do?
  114. What is the one thing you can’t do, no matter how hard you try?
  115. What are you looking forward to?
  116. Could you be persuaded to kill someone? If you answer no, how much money would it take to change your mind?”
  117. Are you feeding your fears or your hopes and dreams?
  118. What have you given up on?
  119. If you were in a band, what kind of music would you play?
  120. What are you most scared of?
  121. What drives you to do better at something?
  122. If you were guaranteed the correct answer to one question, what would you ask?
  123. What do you think about the organic food movement?
  124. What was your turning point to a more active life?
  125. What is your favorite quote?
  126. Are your goals and dreams written down?
  127. What made you smile today?
  128. What is the difference between living and existing?
  129. What is the worst advice you have ever been given?
  130. If you had the chance to go back in time and change one thing, what would you change?
  131. How do you celebrate the things you do have in your life?
  132. Is the country you live in really the best fit for you?
  133. When did you last push the boundaries of your comfort zone?
  134. Your hair looks beautiful How is it like to be extremely good looking?
  135. When was the last time you traveled somewhere new?
  136. What is the biggest frustration you’re facing now?
  137. What is your most valuable skill?
  138. Are you holding onto something that you need to let go of? What’s stopping you?
  139. What is the most famous person you have ever met?
  140. What would you change about your life if you knew you would never die?
  141. Do you consider yourself worthy of love and admiration?
  142. What are you doing to pursue your dreams right now?
  143. What is something you hate but you wished you loved?
  144. If you had unlimited resources, how would you live your life?
  145. What is your dream job?
  146. What do you think is the best feeling in the world?
  147. What is the most cliché thing you have done in your life?
  148. Did you say “I love you” to the most important person in your life today?
  149. What is your “go-to” joke?
  150. How much time are you spending on social media?
  151. What is one thing you thought existed but it actually doesn’t?
  152. What stands between you and happiness?
  153. Do you trust your own instincts?
  154. Do you have a personal mission statement?
  155. How much control do you really have over yourself?
  156. What is something you get wrong almost every time you do it?
  157. What does success mean to you?
  158. When you’re 90 years old, what will matter most to you in the world?
  159. What things do you do every day that you wish were automated?
  160. What is one thing you do to get motivated?
  161. What is one thing you wish you had known at ?
  162. What are the top 2 compliments you hear from people about yourself?
  163. If all came back around to you, would it help you or hurt you?
  164. When was the last time you travelled somewhere new?
  165. What’s your biggest problem?
  166. What short phrases should be on candy hearts but aren’t?
  167. What do you believe stands between you and complete happiness?
  168. What is the funniest movie you have ever seen?
  169. What are you most proud of?
  170. Do you “genuinely” think you are attractive?
  171. What do you like most about yourself?
  172. If you could ask for one wish, what would it be?
  173. Do you ask enough questions, or are you happily settling for what you know already?
  174. Do you follow through on commitments?
  175. If you were at heaven’s gates, and God asked “you why should I let you in?”, what would you say?
  176. If you had to teach someone one thing, what would you teach?
  177. If you had a friend that you spoke to the same way you speak to yourself, how long do you think that person would allow you to be your friend?
  178. What is honor, and does it even matter anymore?
  179. What’s the earliest memory you have of your life?
  180. What was your first kiss like?
  181. How have you educated yourself today?
  182. When did you realize people had accepted you as an adult?
  183. I’m genuinely interested What’s one song you will never skip on your playlist?
  184. What is your favorite chewing gum flavor?
  185. What is one thing you don’t understand about yourself?
  186. Do you fear rejection? What are you doing to overcome this fear?
  187. What is a movie moment that completely transformed you?
  188. How could you describe yourself in 5 words?
  189. Do you choose happiness or leave it to chance?
  190. What is your favorite word in the English language?
  191. If you lost everything tomorrow, whose arms would you want to run into? Does that person know how much they mean to you?
  192. What terrifies you the most?
  193. Have you ever invested in yourself financially? Why or why not?
  194. What is your greatest strength?
  195. If your entire life was a movie, what title would best fit?
  196. If you could only speak one word today, what would you say?
  197. What makes you special?
  198. Who are you really? Describe yourself without using your name, or any attributes given to you by society and really think. Deep down, who are you?
  199. What is something beautiful you see every day?
  200. Who are your professors in the school of life?
  201. When you think of your home, what immediately comes to mind?
  202. What do you love to do? Do you do it often? If the answer is no, why not?
  203. How would you describe the next 5 years of your life in a sentence?
  204. What is the worst thing your mom caught you doing as a kid?
  205. What did you want to be when you where younger?
  206. How do you challenge your assumptions?
  207. What is something you’ve always wanted, but couldn’t have due to social stigmas?
  208. What is the worst song lyric you have ever heard?
  209. What is something you just have to do every day?
  210. What messages have you internalized?
  211. Are you where you thought you’d be at this point in your life?
  212. What books have influenced you the most?
  213. Why are you burned out from your job?
  214. What do you want most out of life?
  215. What were you doing when you last lost track of the time?
  216. What do you want your life to look like in 5 years? Do you have a plan to get there?
  217. Name one psychological barrier in your life? What is it holding you back from doing?
  218. What gives you peace?
  219. What product do you think the world could go on without?
  220. Do you consider yourself the hero or the villain in your story?
  221. Do you bring your work home with you?
  222. When did you not speak up when you should have?
  223. What impact do you want to leave in the world?
  224. What is your current desktop wallpaper?
  225. Who are you becoming?
  226. If you could spend 15 minutes with anyone, living or dead, who would it be? Why?
  227. How many times a day do you check your email?
  228. What have you done that you’re most proud to have achieved?
  229. What impresses you most about kids these days?
  230. What do you want to be remembered by?
  231. If a doctor gave you one year to live, what would you try to accomplish?
  232. How do you deal with failure?
  233. What “impossible coincidence” stories do you know?
  234. Standing at the gates of heaven, and God asks you “Why should I let you in?” What do you reply?
  235. Do you fear death? If so, do you have a good reason?
  236. If karma was coming back to you, would it help or hurt you?
  237. What is the best pizza place you have ever been to?
  238. What smells make you happy?
  239. What is your worst experience in a foreign country?
  240. What small thing could you do to make someone’s day better?
  241. What would you change if you were told with 100% certainty that God does not exist? Or if you don’t believe in God, that he does exist?
  242. What is your most interesting hobby?
  243. Are you open to experiencing something outside your comfort zone everyday?
  244. What was the single, best realization you have ever had?
  245. If you spend a day watching movies when you should be working a day wasted or well spent?
  246. What do you want most out of life?
  247. What are you excited about?
  248. What is legal that you think should be illegal?
  249. What incredibly common thing in life terrifies you?
  250. If you woke up tomorrow as an animal, what animal would you choose to be?
  251. What inspires you?
  252. What did failure to reach your goal teach you about yourself?
  253. What do you consider to be the highlight of your life?
  254. What TV show do you most identify with?
  255. What will people say at your funeral?
  256. Would your life be better or worse, if you knew the time and place where you would die?
  257. What is the word you absolutely hate people for using?
  258. If you could send a message to the entire world, what would you say in 30 seconds?
  259. What do you “owe” yourself?
  260. What did you dream about last night?
  261. What would happen if you never wasted another minute of your life, what would that look like?
  262. If you could start over, what would you do differently?
  263. What is one thing that you would risk your life for?
  264. If you had to live a week without internet, what will you do to keep yourself busy?
  265. What would you do different if you were reborn?
  266. What bad habits do you want to break?
  267. What is your favorite drink?
  268. If you could watch everything that happened in your life until now, would you enjoy it?
  269. How do you express your gratitude for good things and people you have in your life?
  270. Do you meditate daily for at least 5 minutes?
  271. Did you pause to celebrate the last time you accomplished a goal, big or small?
  272. What is the craziest thing you’ve seen somebody do at the workplace?
  273. What was your most irrational fear as a child?
  274. Who are the people under your influence?
  275. What would you regret not doing?
  276. If you had 24 hours to live, who would you be with 23 hours from now?
  277. If today was the last day of your life, what would you want to do?
  278. Whose life have you had the greatest impact on?
  279. How do you keep a sense of perspective when life gets difficult?
  280. Where would you like to live? Why haven’t you moved?
  281. If the average lifespan was 50 years, would you do anything differently?
  282. When was the last time you tried something new?
  283. If you could live anywhere on this planet, and take anything that you love with you, where would you choose to live?
  284. What are the chances you’ve passed up on that you regret?
  285. Would you be a martyr and risk your reputation by standing up for what is right in front of your peers? Or is it better to be pragmatic and do nothing?
  286. What would you do if you had a working time machine?
  287. What are the things that stand between you and complete happiness?
  288. Give me your deepest, most profound quote you just made up
  289. What was your favorite toy as a child?
  290. How do you apply the learning from this regret to your actions today?
  291. What do you regret most so far in life?
  292. If you lost everything tomorrow, whose arms would you run into to make everything ok?
  293. When someone sees your name on caller ID, what thoughts and feelings do you want them to have?
  294. Would you break the law to save a loved one?
  295. What is the happiest you have ever been?
  296. If you had to pick an image to represent each member of your family, what would you pick?
  297. If you were going to die at midnight, what would you be doing at 11:45pm?
  298. What is your favorite season of the year?
  299. If you could make a 30 second speech to the entire world, what would you say?
  300. Whose life have you had the greatest impact on?
  301. What gives you meaning?
  302. Are you content? If not, what is the source of your lack of contentment?
  303. If you had a year left to live, what would you achieve over the next 12 months?



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Seems pretty exhaustive right?  That’s a lot of questions.  I don’t want to overwhelm you but let’s be honest…


In the world of audience building we are just getting started.


Unless I get hit by a truck or diagnosed with some life threatening illness I’ll be back next week with part 2 of The Impact Bible! (and even if that happens I STILL might be back anyway because I’m just one of those fucking guys who doesn’t go away!)


Stay tuned…


I’m Kam and that’s all I got!

Author: KamFatz
Kam Jennings (aka KamFatz) is a full time internet marketer. He is the owner of Epic Conversions Email Marketing and Digital Publishing. He can help you with your email marketing, your podcasting, your product launching and more...

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